Emergency leave message

Emergencies do not wait for a well-worded letter. Send the first message in under a minute, from wherever you are standing, and write the proper note afterwards.

Reach for this when something urgent has just happened — a hospital call, an accident, a child who needs collecting. Send the short version first and worry about format later.

Send now:

[manager's name] — family emergency, I have to leave. [colleague] knows about [urgent item]. I will update you tonight.

Send once things have settled:

Subject: Emergency leave — [date]

Hello [manager's name],

Thanks for your patience earlier. I left at [time] on [date] because of a family emergency.

Where things stand: [one line on the situation].

I expect to be back on [expected day]. If that changes I will tell you before the day starts.

[handover status]

[your name]

What to put in each blank

[urgent item]
One thing only. Whatever breaks first if nobody touches it today.
[one line on the situation]
Enough for your manager to plan. No more detail than you are comfortable sharing.
[expected day]
Give a real estimate. "Not sure yet, I will confirm Thursday" beats a date you cannot keep.
[handover status]
Confirm what has been picked up and what is still sitting untouched.

Before you send it

  • Ring or message. Do not rely on an email that may sit unread for hours.
  • Tell one person and let them tell the rest. Announcing it widely while you are driving helps nobody.
  • Some workplaces log an unplanned absence differently once it passes a few days. Ask when you are back, not while it is happening.

Questions people ask about this letter

What do I send if I cannot write properly right now?

One sentence: what happened, that you are leaving, and who is covering. Everything else can follow later that day.

Who should I contact first?

Your direct manager. If they do not pick up, message them and tell one colleague who can pass it on.

Should I keep updating during the emergency?

One update a day is plenty. Say when your next update will come, then send it, even if nothing has changed.